Monday, 25 June 2007

Being an Ideal Slave

Greetings Little ones

I thoughts it might be of value to let you know how an an ideal slave should behave.

Being a Dominant Female, there are manners, morals and etiquette that I feel a good slave/submissive should possess.

This is not a be all and end all list but merely attributes that would, for me make up part of what an ideal slave should be.

This list can be used in reference to permanent D/s relationships, Professional Dominant/client or those in public in the fetish or BDSM scene.

An ideal slave;

* is polite at all times
* is punctual
* never wastes a Dominants time
* Takes care of personal hygiene
* Never puts sexual wants before a Dominant's needs or requirements
* Follows orders to the best of ability
* Has own personality (not a complete doormat!)
* Receives punishments with good grace
* Questions but never answers back in a rude or impertinent manner
* Does not moan or complain to a Dominant about trivial matters
* Is attentive to a Dominants needs at all times
* Does not embarrass a Dominant in public
* Uses safe word when necessary and does not abuse it
* Considers simple servitude without command
* Never stalks, pesters or unnecessarily bothers aDominant (or anyone for that matter!)
* Respects a Dominants privacy
* Is skilled in a non-BDSM activity that may benefit a Dominant
* Is keen to make a Dominants life better any way they can
* Never disobeys a direct order from a Dominant
* Does not masturbate during periods of enforced chastity
* Never does a domestic chore half heartedly
* Is loyal to a Dominant - time permitting
* Will put a Dominants needs before their own
* Is always clean and presentable in the presence of a Dominant
* Knows their place!

Study this list little ones it might benefit you in the fututre

Mistress Strict

Sunday, 24 June 2007

I'm in LUV

Greetings Little ones
to all you little shoe fetishists ut there, here is a treat http://www.highheelshoemuseum.com/
what more need I say. I love ALL the shoes here.

BUY me something pretty. I deserve it

Mistress Strict

Saturday, 23 June 2007

Being Brave

Greetings Little Ones

I recently received an enquiry from an elderly gentleman who had fantasized for his entire life about being spanked by a strong sensual woman.

He wrote to me in great detail about the scenario he wished to enact. How he imagined the lighting, the smells, the feel, what the woman would wear. He didn’t dream of thigh boots and corsets, just a simple dress, demur make up, the scene he created in his mind was all very (dare I say it) normal. BUT, it was his deep dark fantasy. Something that for years and years he had held close too afraid to express his desire, frightened that he would be judged.

I found his email both incredibly sad but also amazingly brave.

Little ones, I think that those who find the courage to express their yearning are incredible brave and it makes me so feel both proud and flattered to be honoured with such trust.


Spanking, cross dressing, sadomasochistic fantasy images of every kind, feet fetishists, sissy maid, you name it, I have heard it, and it is ALL WAY WAY WAY more common than most people realize. Statistic surveys have been completed that quote figures ranging between 10 and 22% of all men have had some level of desire to enact some form of sadomasochistic scenario and that between 7 -11% of men aged between 19 and 51 have acted on those desires. Next time you are in a crowd of men, look around you, at least one in every ten men is a closet kinkster of some kind.

Reassuring isn't it.

Be well and be wicked

Strict

Thursday, 21 June 2007

Accidents happen

Greetings Little Ones

Today my Danish boy rang to confess that even though he has been locked for only two weeks, he 'accidently' came, when he was cleaning himself last night.

I am both VERY proud of him and VERY disappointed him him. He needs to be punished, BUT he also must be praised. He could have been a wicked little subbie boy. He could have deleted the video of the accident. (to keep a check on my boys when they remove their cages for cleaning, they must make a video of the cleaning session for me and post it on YouTube for me to view). He could have lied and not confessed, but he did not, I immediately told me to the terrible transgression. That makes me very proud of him. The fact that he has so little self control is shameful and deserves humiliation. That will come, but the lesson is clear.

He was a good boy, a true and noble slave and I am proud of him.

Be well, be good little ones
Strict

Wednesday, 20 June 2007

Isn't it pretty!!!

Greetings Little ones,


The NEW CB chastity device, the CB 6000, isn't it pretty!!!!! Oh my, I can't wait to try it out on a willing (or even reluctant victim)

The design has been improved since the cb3000, which I have found CAN be escaped from!!. It is going to be fun to see if the design improvements reduce the ability of naughty subbies to wiggle their way out!.

Any Volunteers?

Strict

Tuesday, 19 June 2007

Studio Progress

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Monday, 18 June 2007

Shopping

Greetings Little Ones,

I do love to shop little ones. I of course adore shopping for shoes. Can there be anything more pleasant than to take a boy shopping for shoes and have him act as your personal servant in the stores. To have a boy knee at you feet in public and tenderly ease my shoes from my feet before cupping my foot gently and assisting me to try on a new pair of fabulous heels.

I love the envious looks the other shoppers give me. I love the adoring way in which each new pair of shoes are presented for my inspection. Seeing the confused look on the shop assistance faces as my boy takes over their roles and does it BETTER than they ever could.

And when my decision is made, the shoes purchased, it is just a delight to hand the bags to boy and allow him to follow behind carrying the bags, simply waiting for my next detour.

Happy thoughts

Strict