Greetings little ones,
The other day, I had a beautiful bondage session with a quite experienced subbie boy. He was eager to test and stretch his limits and it was my pleasure to assist him in that quest.
The boy had experienced many forms of bondage, ropes and chains where familiar to him, he had not however, ever experienced mummification. Many find the form of bondage very challenging. Panic attacks can happen if the sub is not monitored with care.
Once mummified, the boy slipped down into sub space and found that amazing place of peace and calm. For a time he was able to 'float' in that space, but he then began to experience anxiety. He began to sweat and found his breathing had become shallow. Soft words and reassuring hands helped him beat the panic demons and find his inner calm.
He went far further than he thought he could. He was gently push past what he thought was his limit. At the end of the session, he lay curled by my feet relaxed and deeply peaceful. It is a beautiful thing to see. I was so proud of him. He trusted enough to go beyond!
THAT is true submission.
Saturday, 29 September 2007
Monday, 17 September 2007
Mistress NOT mind reader
Greetings little ones
Are you able to articulate what it is that you desire? Do you know what it is that turns you on? What is it that excites you? What is YOUR fetish?
One of the wonderful things about this world of ours little ones, is that EVERYONE is different. We all have different likes and dislikes. What turns YOU on might be a massive turn OFF for someone else. When you visit a Mistress or when you are exploring with a new partner, it is VITAL that you feel comfortable enough to really be honest about what it is that you enjoy, AND equally important it is important to say what is a turn OFF.
A Mistress may have insights, a Mistress can tell much from a clients behaviour, BUT I know of none who are mind readers. Speak up and be honest with your Mistress. This is YOUR responsibility, if she doesn't know she can't act. Help her to know you better. She will gain more from a session if you do as she will know how best to push and punish you. You will gain more. and, you will both be happier.
Are you able to articulate what it is that you desire? Do you know what it is that turns you on? What is it that excites you? What is YOUR fetish?
One of the wonderful things about this world of ours little ones, is that EVERYONE is different. We all have different likes and dislikes. What turns YOU on might be a massive turn OFF for someone else. When you visit a Mistress or when you are exploring with a new partner, it is VITAL that you feel comfortable enough to really be honest about what it is that you enjoy, AND equally important it is important to say what is a turn OFF.
A Mistress may have insights, a Mistress can tell much from a clients behaviour, BUT I know of none who are mind readers. Speak up and be honest with your Mistress. This is YOUR responsibility, if she doesn't know she can't act. Help her to know you better. She will gain more from a session if you do as she will know how best to push and punish you. You will gain more. and, you will both be happier.
Monday, 10 September 2007
An honour
Recently I had the great honour of giving an instructional session to a Dominant lady who was totally new to the lifestyle and her boy. It was a genuine privilege and pleasure to work with this couple. The respect that they showed each other as they entered into what was a unusual experience for tribute to them both. He was an experienced submissive and pain slut, she was new to the lifestyle, although clearly NOT new to being a powerful and in control young lady.
To say that she took to it like “a duck to water”, would be an under statement. There were many aspects to this encounter that pleased me enormously.
Firstly, here was a young lady who was new to the lifestyle, but who was willing (if not eager) to embrace all that it can offer her. She showed great courage in her willingness to say, those VERY scary words, “I don’t know, please teach me.” That showed wonderful maturity and self awareness. NOT everyone who wants to enter this lifestyle is so wise.
The damage that can be caused by lack of knowledge is immense. Realizing that, this lovely lady sort out a teacher, placed herself in a position of vulnerability and asked for help. I admire and respect her greatly for doing so.
As we slowly worked though some basic aspects of bondage and discipline, she and her partner asked intelligent questions. She tried things out. Tested her limits and frankly, she blossomed!!
It was such a delight to see the GRIN that she wore as she left my studio to take her boy home to practice on.
More about this wonderful session later
Be good little ones
Mistress Strict
To say that she took to it like “a duck to water”, would be an under statement. There were many aspects to this encounter that pleased me enormously.
Firstly, here was a young lady who was new to the lifestyle, but who was willing (if not eager) to embrace all that it can offer her. She showed great courage in her willingness to say, those VERY scary words, “I don’t know, please teach me.” That showed wonderful maturity and self awareness. NOT everyone who wants to enter this lifestyle is so wise.
The damage that can be caused by lack of knowledge is immense. Realizing that, this lovely lady sort out a teacher, placed herself in a position of vulnerability and asked for help. I admire and respect her greatly for doing so.
As we slowly worked though some basic aspects of bondage and discipline, she and her partner asked intelligent questions. She tried things out. Tested her limits and frankly, she blossomed!!
It was such a delight to see the GRIN that she wore as she left my studio to take her boy home to practice on.
More about this wonderful session later
Be good little ones
Mistress Strict
Monday, 3 September 2007
the need for advice!!
Goodness me!!!
I had not realized how many of you out there were longing to ask Mistress a question. How many of you needed the advice of an experienced and approachable Domme.
I can’t possibly reply on line to ALL the emails you have sent, but I will try to pick some common themes and address them in future posts.
Please don’t hesitate to contact me, I am happy to assist where I can, BUT, little ones, IF you are rude, if your question lacks appropriate thought and/or if you fail to have the common courtesy to address me by name and sign your email then DON’T expect a reply. YOUR email will join the many others in the trash folder.
Mistress Stirct
I had not realized how many of you out there were longing to ask Mistress a question. How many of you needed the advice of an experienced and approachable Domme.
I can’t possibly reply on line to ALL the emails you have sent, but I will try to pick some common themes and address them in future posts.
Please don’t hesitate to contact me, I am happy to assist where I can, BUT, little ones, IF you are rude, if your question lacks appropriate thought and/or if you fail to have the common courtesy to address me by name and sign your email then DON’T expect a reply. YOUR email will join the many others in the trash folder.
Mistress Stirct
Saturday, 1 September 2007
Agony
I got this email from a sissy I know the other day. I thought that it might be valuable for others to read her letter and my reply.
Dear Mistress Strict,
My Mistress has told me she will be playing
with another subbie/maid. I feel intense jealousy that her
attention will be directed to someone else. How do I overcome my envy and be
happy for her?
Signed
A greedy slut.
I replied:
Dear one,
Wagging my finger at you!
Attitude attitude attitude!! You are committing one of the cardinal sins of submission, you are focused not on what your Domme wants, but on what you want. Wicked child!!
Think for a moment what it would be like not you have your Goddess in your life at all. That she chooses to play with others is her right. Jealousy is a very unattractive quality and is one of the fastest ways that I know of to poison a relationship.
Focus on your Mistresses needs and not your own and feelings of jealousy disappear. . This is a glass half full and not half empty situation. Your mistress chooses to be with you. Celebrate that fact.
Mistress Strict
Saturday, 25 August 2007
BOOT BLISS
Greetings little ones.
What a day of ups and downs it has been.
This morning I awoke with a thrill of anticipation. I had a client booked to see me mid morning who was a ‘virgin’ to the Bdsm world. That’s right little ones. He SAID he had never visited a Mistress before. I confess little ones that for me it is a thrill to introduce a boy to the world to Bdsm. I feel that it is both a great honour and a significant responsibility taking the hand of a new boy and leading him gently from the world of his fantasies into the reality of a first time Bdsm experience.
I know that some Mistress’s feel that teaching a newbie is a chore. For me it is a blessing. I enjoy it and work hard to ensure that his first taste of the Ds world leaving him wanting more.
With all these thoughts is mind I was delighted when this new boy rang early to re-confirm his appointment. I prepared myself and then I waited. And waited ………….. and waited.
That is right little ones the wicked disrespectful boy failed to attend me. He failed to ring to cancel. He failed, letting us BOTH down. This is a hazard of being a professional Dominatrix. It happens, I am happy to say rarely, but it does happen.
Anyway, it left me with time that I had not expected to have free and I was annoyed. I stalked about in my thigh boots longing to hurt someone. Then, happy Happy JOY JOY!!
A beautiful boy was free to attend me and I had the delightful pleasure of having a boot slave lavish all the attention on my black thigh boots that they so richly deserved.
With my heel pressed deep into his thigh, he buffed and polished.
As I ground my foot hard against his chest, his eyes looked on mine, he continued to clean and shine my boot until they shone so clearly that I was able to see his reflection looking lovely and adoring into them.
What a pleasure is was to lie back and have him tend to my needs. Is there anything more lovely than having a devoted boy attend me in my ‘hour of need’?
One never knows what is going to happen next little ones.
Never give in, never give up.
Mistress Strict
What a day of ups and downs it has been.
This morning I awoke with a thrill of anticipation. I had a client booked to see me mid morning who was a ‘virgin’ to the Bdsm world. That’s right little ones. He SAID he had never visited a Mistress before. I confess little ones that for me it is a thrill to introduce a boy to the world to Bdsm. I feel that it is both a great honour and a significant responsibility taking the hand of a new boy and leading him gently from the world of his fantasies into the reality of a first time Bdsm experience.
I know that some Mistress’s feel that teaching a newbie is a chore. For me it is a blessing. I enjoy it and work hard to ensure that his first taste of the Ds world leaving him wanting more.
With all these thoughts is mind I was delighted when this new boy rang early to re-confirm his appointment. I prepared myself and then I waited. And waited ………….. and waited.
That is right little ones the wicked disrespectful boy failed to attend me. He failed to ring to cancel. He failed, letting us BOTH down. This is a hazard of being a professional Dominatrix. It happens, I am happy to say rarely, but it does happen.
Anyway, it left me with time that I had not expected to have free and I was annoyed. I stalked about in my thigh boots longing to hurt someone. Then, happy Happy JOY JOY!!
A beautiful boy was free to attend me and I had the delightful pleasure of having a boot slave lavish all the attention on my black thigh boots that they so richly deserved.
With my heel pressed deep into his thigh, he buffed and polished.
As I ground my foot hard against his chest, his eyes looked on mine, he continued to clean and shine my boot until they shone so clearly that I was able to see his reflection looking lovely and adoring into them.
What a pleasure is was to lie back and have him tend to my needs. Is there anything more lovely than having a devoted boy attend me in my ‘hour of need’?
One never knows what is going to happen next little ones.
Never give in, never give up.
Mistress Strict
Wednesday, 15 August 2007
What makes Mistress most proud?
The path of a submissive is by no means an easy one.
To many, it seems such an easy and a straightforward proposition; to give yourself over to the desires of a Mistress. What could be simpler?
Do not however be fooled little ones.
It is not an easy thing to do, nor is doing so the right decision for everyone. To be a devoted submissive requires great courage and inner strength. It is easy to ‘talk’ about giving yourself of a Mistress, but doing so is another thing entirely.
As a submissive, you will be expected to do things that you have never done before.
You will be required to perform tasks, not because you desire to do them, but because your Mistress requires them of you, and your desire to please her is the driving force in your world.
You will try to please, Try to meet, even try to surpass her expectations. When you do so, the joy you feel will be a greater reward than gold, but be warned little one. Every coin has its flip side, and disappointing your Mistress will be the greatest torture you will ever experience.
THAT is when your inner strength will be required.
When you have failed, it will be your courage that ensures you do not simply give up. Surrendering to the despair you feel having let down your Mistress is so temping little ones. You will want to run and hide from her gaze, you will want to escape the shame you feel. You will torture yourself over and over thinking about how you could have done things differently. You will play the ‘if only” game again and again. At those times little ones, you have a choice, sink into dispare, blame others for it all being ‘too hard’ OR call upon your inner strength and courage to rise above your failure and continue your service with rejuvenated vigor.
That is when the submissive shines. That is when your Mistress will be most proud of you. EVERYONE fails, but the true measure of your devotion to your Mistress is how you respond to the failure. Do you choose to wallow in self recrimination and blame OR do you learn from your error and move forward, offering your Mistress your devotion with renewed ardor and passion?
Being a submissive is NOT an easy thing little ones, but the joy your devotion brings is unsurpassed
Think well on the path you choose little ones.
Mistress Strict
To many, it seems such an easy and a straightforward proposition; to give yourself over to the desires of a Mistress. What could be simpler?
Do not however be fooled little ones.
It is not an easy thing to do, nor is doing so the right decision for everyone. To be a devoted submissive requires great courage and inner strength. It is easy to ‘talk’ about giving yourself of a Mistress, but doing so is another thing entirely.
As a submissive, you will be expected to do things that you have never done before.
You will be required to perform tasks, not because you desire to do them, but because your Mistress requires them of you, and your desire to please her is the driving force in your world.
You will try to please, Try to meet, even try to surpass her expectations. When you do so, the joy you feel will be a greater reward than gold, but be warned little one. Every coin has its flip side, and disappointing your Mistress will be the greatest torture you will ever experience.
THAT is when your inner strength will be required.
When you have failed, it will be your courage that ensures you do not simply give up. Surrendering to the despair you feel having let down your Mistress is so temping little ones. You will want to run and hide from her gaze, you will want to escape the shame you feel. You will torture yourself over and over thinking about how you could have done things differently. You will play the ‘if only” game again and again. At those times little ones, you have a choice, sink into dispare, blame others for it all being ‘too hard’ OR call upon your inner strength and courage to rise above your failure and continue your service with rejuvenated vigor.
That is when the submissive shines. That is when your Mistress will be most proud of you. EVERYONE fails, but the true measure of your devotion to your Mistress is how you respond to the failure. Do you choose to wallow in self recrimination and blame OR do you learn from your error and move forward, offering your Mistress your devotion with renewed ardor and passion?
Being a submissive is NOT an easy thing little ones, but the joy your devotion brings is unsurpassed
Think well on the path you choose little ones.
Mistress Strict
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