A question without an answer.

Below is a very common type of letter I receive. I wonder how YOU would reply?

Good evening Mistress Strict. I have long had a fantasy of putting myself in the control of a dominant woman. I am married; my wife would never understand this. I don't really know what would be involved and what boundaries are set if any. I am really quite nervous but excited at the prospect. Sorry I'm not trying to waste your time, I would just like to know a little bit more about what is involved.

Hope you can help

it isn't easy

Dear ones,

I have a number of sissy girls doing distance training with me. I am proud of them all. They work hard, doing their very best to complete the lessons I give them. Thy learn to walk, talk, sit, curtsy, kneel, serve and most importantly obey! It is NOT easy being a sissy and distance training really tests a girls commitment and dedication. The lessons I set are individualized to each girls level of experience and personal circumstances, but still from time to time each one will find it hard if not impossible to complete a given task.

Having failed to complete a task the true test of a distance trainee is to accept the punishment given (if there is one,) and continue to move forward. It is all to easy to give up. A true sissy would never do that. Times of self doubt are natural, but giving up is not the way to move forward. Accepting that from time to time we all fail and using that failure as a learning tool is the ideal.

A sissy must be dedicated. I am proud of all my girls, because they trust in me, they give their all to their lessons and they are beauties, every one.

Agony

I got this email from a sissy I know the other day. I thought that it might be valuable for others to read her letter and my reply.

Dear Mistress Strict,

My Mistress has told me she will be playing
with another subbie/maid. I feel intense jealousy that her
attention will be directed to someone else. How do I overcome my envy and be
happy for her?

Signed
A greedy slut.

I replied:

Dear one,
Wagging my finger at you!
Attitude attitude attitude!! You are committing one of the cardinal sins of submission, you are focused not on what your Domme wants, but on what you want. Wicked child!!

Think for a moment what it would be like not you have your Goddess in your life at all. That she chooses to play with others is her right. Jealousy is a very unattractive quality and is one of the fastest ways that I know of to poison a relationship.

Focus on your Mistresses needs and not your own and feelings of jealousy disappear. . This is a glass half full and not half empty situation. Your mistress chooses to be with you. Celebrate that fact.

Mistress Strict