Well, little ones,
There has been so much that has happened since I have been "off the air" for the past few weeks with ISP trouble. So let me catch you up.
Firstly, and most excitingly (ooops, is that a word?) one of my girls, one of my distance training sissy girls (jennie from Hull in the UK) has been accepted by my dear friend Mistress Ava as her personal maid.
I am so excited for them both. jennie has been training with me for some time. She has been diligent and dedicated. Once she reached a level that I found acceptable, I was confident to make an introduction for her to my long standing friend Mistress Ava. When I use to live in England, Mistress Ava and I would terrorize the south East, LOL . Now she has 'settled down' in York and mentioned that she was in need of a personal maid. I made a tentative introduction, they met, and I am happy to report that things have worked out for them both better than I could have hoped. They are even talking about a live in position!!! I am so proud of jennie and happy for Mistress Ava. She deserves only the best and I am proud so say that with her dedication and efficient manner, jennie is becoming one of the best.
I am so very happy and proud. Over time I would love to find happy homes for all my girls in training. I have thought many times of starting a 'Match Makers service' for sissy girls. maybe one day, I'll find the time. happy sigh. A Dommes job is never done.
your,
Mistress Strict
Showing posts with label distance training. Show all posts
Showing posts with label distance training. Show all posts
Tuesday, 8 January 2008
Saturday, 17 November 2007
it isn't easy
Dear ones,
I have a number of sissy girls doing distance training with me. I am proud of them all. They work hard, doing their very best to complete the lessons I give them. Thy learn to walk, talk, sit, curtsy, kneel, serve and most importantly obey! It is NOT easy being a sissy and distance training really tests a girls commitment and dedication. The lessons I set are individualized to each girls level of experience and personal circumstances, but still from time to time each one will find it hard if not impossible to complete a given task.
Having failed to complete a task the true test of a distance trainee is to accept the punishment given (if there is one,) and continue to move forward. It is all to easy to give up. A true sissy would never do that. Times of self doubt are natural, but giving up is not the way to move forward. Accepting that from time to time we all fail and using that failure as a learning tool is the ideal.
A sissy must be dedicated. I am proud of all my girls, because they trust in me, they give their all to their lessons and they are beauties, every one.
I have a number of sissy girls doing distance training with me. I am proud of them all. They work hard, doing their very best to complete the lessons I give them. Thy learn to walk, talk, sit, curtsy, kneel, serve and most importantly obey! It is NOT easy being a sissy and distance training really tests a girls commitment and dedication. The lessons I set are individualized to each girls level of experience and personal circumstances, but still from time to time each one will find it hard if not impossible to complete a given task.
Having failed to complete a task the true test of a distance trainee is to accept the punishment given (if there is one,) and continue to move forward. It is all to easy to give up. A true sissy would never do that. Times of self doubt are natural, but giving up is not the way to move forward. Accepting that from time to time we all fail and using that failure as a learning tool is the ideal.
A sissy must be dedicated. I am proud of all my girls, because they trust in me, they give their all to their lessons and they are beauties, every one.
Thursday, 12 July 2007
Technology!!!! Oh how I have a love/hate relationship with it.
My dear little ones.
Technology has allowed me to enter the lives of submissives in such far flung countries as Germany, Denmark and the US all the time staying comfy and warm in my home here in Australia.
There are those that question the value of distance training. It is said that the connection between Dominant and submissive is not a ‘real’ one. It is said that real time is the only way to truly experience service, in fact, I know some people look down on distance training as something less than worthwhile.
Well little ones, I could not disagree more strongly and I know that those dear ones who serve me agree.
For many, this style of service is ideal. The great beauty of the true submissive spirit is that incredible ability to commit. When the right person makes such a commitment, distance is irrelevant.
I enjoy distance training
Unlike some, I don’t approach any less seriously than the “real” thing. I find the challenge of ‘finding the right buttons to push’ for each particular subbie fascinating. Just as no two session are ever the same, no two training schedules can be the same. Every slave/subbie has different needs, different fears, and different vulnerabilities.
I have included examples from two different blogs that are kept by subbies of mine to illustrate this point.
The first is from when I first accepted into service one who desired to serve as my toy. He wrote :
Dear Lady,
My orgasm is yours. This Diary is for you.
A few hours have passed since I got your emails accepting me into your sevice, since you told me so beautifully that you would take me to be yours, that you want to hold my orgasm. The thrill of waiting for your next email and for my training to begin runs all through me.
You tell me that you want me to masturbate for you daily, up to the point of cumming, but that I am not to cum, that I must hold it for you because it is yours and I am yours.
You want me to to enjoy my body as much as I want, that I can play as much as I want but that I am not to cum under any circumstances. That your punishment for my disobedience will be terrible.
I understand fully and will obey, I am thrilled and honoured, I want this so very much.I am Yours.
The next excerpt is from a foot fetishist who desired to worship me.
Mistress
Your ‘surprise’ arrived in the mail this afternoon. I went to the Post Office to check my box at lunch time and it was there. I didn’t dare open it until I had gotten home from work. All afternoon it sat on the corner of my desk. Taunting me. Teasing me. How I longed to rip it open and see what it contained.
But please know Mistress, I did not do so. I waited as you made me promise I would until I was at home.
As per your instructions, I showered with great care. I shaved my legs and moisturized as you had instructed me to do.
I prepared my bedroom. I made sure it was warm and cozy. I lit a candle and place your photograph on the bed beside me.
Mistress Looking into your eyes, I felt you so very close to me. Slowly, I opened the parcel. I tried had to be patient, slowly opening it so make the suspense last. Finally there was your beautiful note,
NEW INSTRUCTIONS FOR YOUR SERVICE MISTRESS. Thank you thank you thank you.
And your gift. When I opened the zip lock bag, your scent rushed out and enveloped me. Oh Mistress it was so lovely. So powerful and so intoxicating. I wound your socking around myself and followed your instructions to the letter.
Thank you Mistress!
As you can see, different subbies, different needs and both truly committed to service.
More on this subject another day.
Mistress Strict
Technology has allowed me to enter the lives of submissives in such far flung countries as Germany, Denmark and the US all the time staying comfy and warm in my home here in Australia.
There are those that question the value of distance training. It is said that the connection between Dominant and submissive is not a ‘real’ one. It is said that real time is the only way to truly experience service, in fact, I know some people look down on distance training as something less than worthwhile.
Well little ones, I could not disagree more strongly and I know that those dear ones who serve me agree.
For many, this style of service is ideal. The great beauty of the true submissive spirit is that incredible ability to commit. When the right person makes such a commitment, distance is irrelevant.
I enjoy distance training
Unlike some, I don’t approach any less seriously than the “real” thing. I find the challenge of ‘finding the right buttons to push’ for each particular subbie fascinating. Just as no two session are ever the same, no two training schedules can be the same. Every slave/subbie has different needs, different fears, and different vulnerabilities.
I have included examples from two different blogs that are kept by subbies of mine to illustrate this point.
The first is from when I first accepted into service one who desired to serve as my toy. He wrote :
Dear Lady,
My orgasm is yours. This Diary is for you.
A few hours have passed since I got your emails accepting me into your sevice, since you told me so beautifully that you would take me to be yours, that you want to hold my orgasm. The thrill of waiting for your next email and for my training to begin runs all through me.
You tell me that you want me to masturbate for you daily, up to the point of cumming, but that I am not to cum, that I must hold it for you because it is yours and I am yours.
You want me to to enjoy my body as much as I want, that I can play as much as I want but that I am not to cum under any circumstances. That your punishment for my disobedience will be terrible.
I understand fully and will obey, I am thrilled and honoured, I want this so very much.I am Yours.
The next excerpt is from a foot fetishist who desired to worship me.
Mistress
Your ‘surprise’ arrived in the mail this afternoon. I went to the Post Office to check my box at lunch time and it was there. I didn’t dare open it until I had gotten home from work. All afternoon it sat on the corner of my desk. Taunting me. Teasing me. How I longed to rip it open and see what it contained.
But please know Mistress, I did not do so. I waited as you made me promise I would until I was at home.
As per your instructions, I showered with great care. I shaved my legs and moisturized as you had instructed me to do.
I prepared my bedroom. I made sure it was warm and cozy. I lit a candle and place your photograph on the bed beside me.
Mistress Looking into your eyes, I felt you so very close to me. Slowly, I opened the parcel. I tried had to be patient, slowly opening it so make the suspense last. Finally there was your beautiful note,
NEW INSTRUCTIONS FOR YOUR SERVICE MISTRESS. Thank you thank you thank you.
And your gift. When I opened the zip lock bag, your scent rushed out and enveloped me. Oh Mistress it was so lovely. So powerful and so intoxicating. I wound your socking around myself and followed your instructions to the letter.
Thank you Mistress!
As you can see, different subbies, different needs and both truly committed to service.
More on this subject another day.
Mistress Strict
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