Saturday 3 October 2009

Know Thy Self

A small piece of advice for those how seek to serve.

KNOW Thy Self.

Journeying through the world of Bdsm can be an exciting adventure, you will learn much about others, and about yourself, however, before embarking on that journey, take time to reflect on your starting point.

Know yourself.
Know what it is that you want.
Know what you DO NOT desire.

All these things change as we grow and learn, but knowing yourself, knowing your limits knowing your value is hugely important.

How can you offer yourself to someone to serve them, if you don't know what you are good at. How can you assist your Mistress if you have no skills to offer her.

Think about that BEFORE you offer yourself into service.

Friday 18 September 2009

Strange But True

As a result of my most recent post, I have received a number of responses from subbies and sissies who know me who have expressed great concern that the post about attention seeking was in reference to their behaviour. I have been astounded by this.

I believe that I am some who does not pull her punchs, rest assured dear reader, if I was bothered by someone behaviour, I would make comment to them directly. They would be in no doubt what so ever that their attention seeking behaviour was not acceptable to me

The attention seeking post expressed my thought about such behaviour in general. It is an insight into my own likes and in that case dislikes. I realize that not all Mistress feel as I do, nor should they. We are individuals, no two Mistresses are the same, no two Mistresses will view behaviour in exactly the same way. That is as it should be.

This is MY blog, these are MY opinions. Anyone has the right to disagree.

Friday 11 September 2009

Attention Seeking

There is a habit that some submissives display that I find particularly disappointing. That is Attention seeking behaviour. What is attention seeking behaviour. Think of the last time you were in a supermarket and saw a toddler whining and tugging at their mothers sleeve. THAT is attention seeking.

"Mistress I caaaaaaaaaaaaaaan't" is attention seeking.

'Mistress I adore you I worship you, you are the sun and the moon, you are my all you and my everything, ..........." is attention seeking.

Misbehaving is attention seeking.

Being a drain rather than of service is attention seeking.

I find it amazing that again and again a submissive will try this type of behaviour in an effort to gain attention. For me such behaviour deserves only one response. Being ignored. If it continues the submissive is not worthy of the attention they crave and should I believe be banished until they learn to behave.

Harsh, perhaps, but they WILL learn or be very miserable.