Sunday 27 April 2008

Orgasm Denial

It is not uncommon for subs and their Dommes to report that the submissive loses the compelling desire to serve and obey after they have been granted the privilege to reaching orgasm. One obvious solution to this problem is the complete denial of the right to orgasm; however, studies show that for good prostate health, a male should ejaculate at least once every two weeks. No Domme wants her boy to risk his health, so the solution is prostate milking or massage.

Massaging the prostate forces seminal fluid and sperm past the valves in the ejaculatory ducts, and empty the prostate (which discharges directly into the urethra). If there is no stimulation given to the penis for a brief time before the prostate massage begins, draining of the ejaculate into the urethra will not trigger orgasm. Once ejaculate appears, it will help to empty the urethra by running a finger firmly up the underside of the penis from the root to the head, pushing the ejaculate in front of it.

Once a sufficient amount of ejaculatory fluid has been drained, insufficient fluid pressure to trigger the ejaculatory reflex will remain, and no amount of penile stimulation will result in orgasm until the fluid glands are recharged. This may take several hours to several days.

How long to go between milkings will have to be gauged by experiment. A particularly effective way of increasing an orgasm deprived male's sense of sexual frustration and thus his desire to serve and please Mistress between prostate milkings is to you’re your boy masturbate himself once a day every day to just short of orgasm, then install him into a chastity device.

Enjoy these wicked thoughts.
Mistress Strict

Tuesday 15 April 2008

Strict Weight loss

Congratulations to my sissy girl Michelle

After months of work. After months of dedication and sweat Michelle has at last reached her goal weight and she looks FABULOUS. I am so proud of my Michelle for all the work she has done.

Changing her body shape was a goal she had asked me to assist her with as part of her distance sissy training. When she started with me she was only just able to squeeze into a size 20 skirt. Now she is looking so lady like and lovely in a new size 16 shape. She now has an excuse to buy a whole new wardrobe of clothes. What sissy wouldn't love that. I'd love to be able to post a pic of her with her new look, but unfortunately (as many of you will understand, she is a little 'shy')

Master Jay a wonderfully skilled Dom and personal trainer is a dear friend of mine and he designed a diet and exercise program for Michelle. Every week she would weigh and measure herself for us. Even though she is in North America and I am here in Australia, she was constantly monitored and her progress reviewed. The Internet offers so many amazing tools.

Thank you Master Jay for your dedication and skill. Michelle has reached her goal and I couldn't be more proud.

Well done my girl. Keep up the GREAT work.

Monday 14 April 2008

Domination is everywhere

Isn't it wonderful that Domination can be found just about anywhere these days. Just yesterday I was reading a ‘children’s book’ that had one of the best role model characters for young women I have come across in a long time. Let me share,

“She was vivid and passionate, with large black eyes, it was said that he had
been her lover. She wore heavy gold earrings and a crown on her black
curly hair ringed with the fangs of snow tigers. Serafin had learned that
she had killed the tigers herself in order to punish the Tartar tribe who
worshiped them, because the tribesmen had failed to do her honour when she had
visited their territory. Without their tiger gods, the tribe declined into
fear and melancholy and begged her to allow them to worship her instead, only to
be rejected with contempt. What good would their worship do her? It
had done nothing for the tigers. Such was she; beautiful, proud and
pitiless.”
Now there is a woman any little girl would aspire to be.

Thursday 10 April 2008

At long last, I'm BACK to Blogging

Well, at last I am settled back at home and I can turn my attention once again to my much neglected blog. Sigh, Mistress has been out and about and away for so long, but fear not, I am back now with so much news to share.

Technology really has done amazing things for the art of Domination.

As you may or may not be aware, I have been on vacation. I have had a delightful time, but I have not been neglecting my wards. My subbie charges have been disciplines and praised trained and torments by me with the aid of technology.

There are so many wonderfully devious devices these days that can be used to keep a boy chaste. So many ways of checking up n a sissy to ensure she is doing as she has been told. The ability to dial into another’s computer, to take control of it and check their surfing history, all while being, on a beach on the other side of the world.

Technology certainly has given the Domme new freedom of expression. New ways of controlling her charges. New ways of monitoring behaviour. I adore taking control of the world of boys living as far afield in Wellington, New Zealand and Ontario in Canada. I love learning the differences in the kinky thoughts of boys and girls from across the planet. It is wonderful.


My stable of charges expands and contract all the time, I am happy to invite new sissies into service and very happy when I can pass on a fully trained one to a deserving Mistress. It really is so very rewarding.

I am a lucky and deserving Domme.

Let me know about your kink, Mistress always enjoys the devotion of a new boy or girl. I welcome applications from those with little or no experience and those who are highly skilled.

The saddest thing in all the world is a subbie alone. Train with me and become worthy to serve.