Saturday 25 August 2007

BOOT BLISS

Greetings little ones.

What a day of ups and downs it has been.

This morning I awoke with a thrill of anticipation. I had a client booked to see me mid morning who was a ‘virgin’ to the Bdsm world. That’s right little ones. He SAID he had never visited a Mistress before. I confess little ones that for me it is a thrill to introduce a boy to the world to Bdsm. I feel that it is both a great honour and a significant responsibility taking the hand of a new boy and leading him gently from the world of his fantasies into the reality of a first time Bdsm experience.

I know that some Mistress’s feel that teaching a newbie is a chore. For me it is a blessing. I enjoy it and work hard to ensure that his first taste of the Ds world leaving him wanting more.

With all these thoughts is mind I was delighted when this new boy rang early to re-confirm his appointment. I prepared myself and then I waited. And waited ………….. and waited.

That is right little ones the wicked disrespectful boy failed to attend me. He failed to ring to cancel. He failed, letting us BOTH down. This is a hazard of being a professional Dominatrix. It happens, I am happy to say rarely, but it does happen.

Anyway, it left me with time that I had not expected to have free and I was annoyed. I stalked about in my thigh boots longing to hurt someone. Then, happy Happy JOY JOY!!

A beautiful boy was free to attend me and I had the delightful pleasure of having a boot slave lavish all the attention on my black thigh boots that they so richly deserved.

With my heel pressed deep into his thigh, he buffed and polished.

As I ground my foot hard against his chest, his eyes looked on mine, he continued to clean and shine my boot until they shone so clearly that I was able to see his reflection looking lovely and adoring into them.

What a pleasure is was to lie back and have him tend to my needs. Is there anything more lovely than having a devoted boy attend me in my ‘hour of need’?

One never knows what is going to happen next little ones.

Never give in, never give up.

Mistress Strict

Wednesday 15 August 2007

What makes Mistress most proud?

The path of a submissive is by no means an easy one.

To many, it seems such an easy and a straightforward proposition; to give yourself over to the desires of a Mistress. What could be simpler?

Do not however be fooled little ones.

It is not an easy thing to do, nor is doing so the right decision for everyone. To be a devoted submissive requires great courage and inner strength. It is easy to ‘talk’ about giving yourself of a Mistress, but doing so is another thing entirely.

As a submissive, you will be expected to do things that you have never done before.
You will be required to perform tasks, not because you desire to do them, but because your Mistress requires them of you, and your desire to please her is the driving force in your world.

You will try to please, Try to meet, even try to surpass her expectations. When you do so, the joy you feel will be a greater reward than gold, but be warned little one. Every coin has its flip side, and disappointing your Mistress will be the greatest torture you will ever experience.

THAT is when your inner strength will be required.

When you have failed, it will be your courage that ensures you do not simply give up. Surrendering to the despair you feel having let down your Mistress is so temping little ones. You will want to run and hide from her gaze, you will want to escape the shame you feel. You will torture yourself over and over thinking about how you could have done things differently. You will play the ‘if only” game again and again. At those times little ones, you have a choice, sink into dispare, blame others for it all being ‘too hard’ OR call upon your inner strength and courage to rise above your failure and continue your service with rejuvenated vigor.

That is when the submissive shines. That is when your Mistress will be most proud of you. EVERYONE fails, but the true measure of your devotion to your Mistress is how you respond to the failure. Do you choose to wallow in self recrimination and blame OR do you learn from your error and move forward, offering your Mistress your devotion with renewed ardor and passion?

Being a submissive is NOT an easy thing little ones, but the joy your devotion brings is unsurpassed

Think well on the path you choose little ones.

Mistress Strict

Monday 13 August 2007

Proper Correspondence Etiquette

Greetings Little ones,


I want to speak today about the correct procedure of properly addressing Mistress when emailing her. It is imperative that you show an understanding of your proper place if you hope to gain a Mistress's attention.

Humility, sarcasm, narcissism, arrogance, and all other forms of disrespectful communications will not be tolerated.

Most Dommes enjoy filtering their mail. If you are rude, if your correspondence lacks the appropriate tone, if you fail to follow appropriate rules of etiquette and respect, a Mistress will not hesitate in consigning you mail to the trash. Such correspondence does not deserve a reply

Yelling.
I consider communications written in capital letters (SUCH AS THIS) to be "yelling", and I will automatically delete such mail

Me Me Me Me
Messages that contain more "I's" than any other word are just in poor taste for a sissy. I call this the "me me me" letter. Humility is a very important part of your training, you must remember that not everything is about you..

Composition, Grammar & Who's Who
Address those messages!
Spell check those messages!
Sign your messages!
Tell me who you are!

Little ones, if you want to correspond with a Mistress, show her that you are a whole person, that you have thoughts and ideas and are not just a needy little no-one who will only seek to drain her dry. Giving of self is an important part of any correspondence. Let your communications be positive and up lifting, not demanding and needy.

Before sending an email, ask yourself this question.
'How will this communication benefit Mistress?"

Be honest.

If the answer is, 'It will not", then why are you sending it?

Just a thought.

Mistress Strict

Wednesday 8 August 2007

Shoe Art

Greetings little ones

Mistress has been having a lovely time lately taking my favourite shoes out on excursions. WHAT? I hear you say Let me explain. I love shoes. This I hope is already clear to my readers. Shoes with heels, boots, stilettos, metal spiked heels are a particular favourite of mine. ANYWAY, I decided that I would like to share my passion for shoes, not just with my fellow kinksters, but with the wider community. Sooooooooooooo, I came up with shoe art.

To begin with I have created a series of photo 'essay'.

These are shoes I adore. Check out the heels. Aren't they lovely!!!!!
The best thing of all? These shoes are see thru. That is right, you can see my toes inside the shoes.

Let me know what you think.

Mistress Strict

Monday 6 August 2007

No pain, means just as much fun

Greetings little ones.

Recently I was approached by a delightful boy who had a foot fetish. The smell, the look, the feel of a dominant woman’s feet excited him. He had viewed my You Tube offerings and had read my site and then sent me a plaintive plea. He wanted a session with me. He wanted it badly, but he had no desire to experience any pain. He was not into canings, or spankings, all he wanted was to worship at my feet. 'Would that be alright?" he ask.

The trepidation which he showed in broaching this with me would have been amusing if he had not been so genuinely concerned that I might reject him.

Let me set the record straight for ALL who might read this.

A visit to my studio does NOT have to include ANY form of pain, hurt, smarting, torture, agony, suffering, smacking, caning, misery, humiliation or distress. The wonderful thing about having an inventive mind is that you are NEVER limited to stereotypes or formulas.

No two clients are alike and like clients, sessions are individual to. No two sessions are ever going to be the same.

I listen to my clients, learn what it is that they desire and then work to extending their experience.

Of course, if pain is what you desire ......... that too can be accommodated.

be well little ones.

Mistress Strict

Friday 3 August 2007

A kinky mind

Greetings little ones,

Last night Mistress went to the theatre to see a most magnificent production of King Lear. The Royal Shakespeare company, with Ian McKellan. The performance was breathtaking. I loved every minute. The staging, the sound, the lighting, the costumes. Oh my the costumes!!!! The ladies of court corseted in beautiful silks. But, little ones. Can you imagine what it was in this production that set my imagination aflutter?

A set of stocks, used to restrain 'Kent'. The props department did a wonderful job with a simple and elegant design. TOTALLY functional and simple. I would so glad that during the course of the scene the stocks where turned so that I was able to get a good look at there design, commit it to memory and then sketch them out when I returned home.

Yes little ones. Mistress will soon have a new toy. A beautiful set of stocks.

The moral of this little tale?

Kink is EVERYWHERE, you just need a kinky mind to see it.

Be kinky little ones.

Mistress Strict