Sunday 29 July 2007

TRUST

Greetings Little Ones

One of THE most important qualities in a Ds relationship is TRUST. As a professional Dominatrix, my clients MUST be able to feel 100% confident in the confidential nature of our relationship. The location of my studio is designed to ensure that my clients can come and go without being observed, my email communication with my distance clients is secure (well as secure as it is possible to make email).

TRUST is a vital ingredient in my work, BUT it is also a vital ingredient in ANY Ds relationship. It is important to remember when seeking a Ds partner Whether it be for casual play, a professional encounter or a lifestyle partnership that you feel you can truly trust the person you will be with.

It is vital not only for your reputation but also for you own personal safety. The desire to submit is strong, but one must ALWAYS remember the need for personal responsibility and security. There have been a few NASTY cases of abuse recently reported and I just felt the need to remind you all. SAFETY is a personal responsibility.

Take care of yourselves little ones.

Mistress Strict

Monday 23 July 2007

Distance Training

Greetings little ones
As you are now aware, I offer distance domination via email (and private Messenger) to slaves and submissives who wish to devote themselves to me from afar when not physically able to attend my studio. I love technology and its use makes domination at a distance so much more exciting, so much more complete. I love my boys sending me video homework via youtube. I love the ability to monitor them and hold them close. The internet is a great tool and I embrace it.

FYI, my rate are:
OPTION 1: $60 per month (for weekly correspondence).
With this option you will be kept in line with weekly interaction via email with additional tasks to keep you appropriately aware of your place in my world.


OPTION 2: $145 per month (for daily correspondence).
For those who require more regular contact, this option will ensure you have the privilege of communicating with your Mistress in more depth on a daily basis to maintain your full devotion. This is a highly individualized service and might include but not be limited to Blogging for Mistress, Video Diary session and much much more.

If you are interested and want to know more, contact me at mistress@strict.com.au
or visit my website www.strict.com.au

Bye for now

Mistress Strict

Tuesday 17 July 2007

Have you visited yet?

Greetings little ones.

Have you visited my website yet? It is still very much a work in progress, but it is coming along and there is alot to read and discover there already. Over the coming weeks, I will be including a gallery page, a page about my studio, lots of articles and thought provoking literature. This is my first website so feedback would be great. Please let me know what you think, what you would like to see that is not there etc.

It is keeping me VERY busy and I am enjoying it. So remember, visit, review and email me your thoughts.

Bye for now little ones

Mistress Strict

Thursday 12 July 2007

My newest YOU TUBE

Hello little ones.

For some reason, my video editor has decided that editing video is no longer its job. Grrrrr Talk about a love hate relationship with technology. Soooooooo my latest video has had to be a stills collage. Here it is. What do you think?

Mistress Strict

Technology!!!! Oh how I have a love/hate relationship with it.

My dear little ones.

Technology has allowed me to enter the lives of submissives in such far flung countries as Germany, Denmark and the US all the time staying comfy and warm in my home here in Australia.

There are those that question the value of distance training. It is said that the connection between Dominant and submissive is not a ‘real’ one. It is said that real time is the only way to truly experience service, in fact, I know some people look down on distance training as something less than worthwhile.

Well little ones, I could not disagree more strongly and I know that those dear ones who serve me agree.
For many, this style of service is ideal. The great beauty of the true submissive spirit is that incredible ability to commit. When the right person makes such a commitment, distance is irrelevant.

I enjoy distance training
Unlike some, I don’t approach any less seriously than the “real” thing. I find the challenge of ‘finding the right buttons to push’ for each particular subbie fascinating. Just as no two session are ever the same, no two training schedules can be the same. Every slave/subbie has different needs, different fears, and different vulnerabilities.

I have included examples from two different blogs that are kept by subbies of mine to illustrate this point.

The first is from when I first accepted into service one who desired to serve as my toy. He wrote :

Dear Lady,

My orgasm is yours. This Diary is for you.

A few hours have passed since I got your emails accepting me into your sevice, since you told me so beautifully that you would take me to be yours, that you want to hold my orgasm. The thrill of waiting for your next email and for my training to begin runs all through me.

You tell me that you want me to masturbate for you daily, up to the point of cumming, but that I am not to cum, that I must hold it for you because it is yours and I am yours.

You want me to to enjoy my body as much as I want, that I can play as much as I want but that I am not to cum under any circumstances. That your punishment for my disobedience will be terrible.

I understand fully and will obey, I am thrilled and honoured, I want this so very much.I am Yours.


The next excerpt is from a foot fetishist who desired to worship me.

Mistress

Your ‘surprise’ arrived in the mail this afternoon. I went to the Post Office to check my box at lunch time and it was there. I didn’t dare open it until I had gotten home from work. All afternoon it sat on the corner of my desk. Taunting me. Teasing me. How I longed to rip it open and see what it contained.

But please know Mistress, I did not do so. I waited as you made me promise I would until I was at home.

As per your instructions, I showered with great care. I shaved my legs and moisturized as you had instructed me to do.

I prepared my bedroom. I made sure it was warm and cozy. I lit a candle and place your photograph on the bed beside me.

Mistress Looking into your eyes, I felt you so very close to me. Slowly, I opened the parcel. I tried had to be patient, slowly opening it so make the suspense last. Finally there was your beautiful note,

NEW INSTRUCTIONS FOR YOUR SERVICE MISTRESS. Thank you thank you thank you.

And your gift. When I opened the zip lock bag, your scent rushed out and enveloped me. Oh Mistress it was so lovely. So powerful and so intoxicating. I wound your socking around myself and followed your instructions to the letter.

Thank you Mistress!


As you can see, different subbies, different needs and both truly committed to service.


More on this subject another day.

Mistress Strict

Sunday 1 July 2007

Being a Key Holder

Greetings little ones

I have had a number of you question what it is to have me as your key holders. Today I will tell you about what it is if you visit me in my studio. Later I will explain how it works for those unable to visit me in person.

I love to control the sexual urges of my wayward slaves. I offer a chastity key holding service for those of you who liked to be controlled by a powerful lady.

Before I commence this service you must have a session with me so that I can assess your suitability and committment.

You will then agree to purchase a "The Curve", CB-6000, CB-3000 with a plastic padlock with a serial number (these are more comfortable and the padlocks can be cut in case of emergencies). I will keep a record of the serial number to ensure that you are not cheating and removing the device between sessions. You will return to my studio so I can fit the chastity device for a specific period. You will then hand over the keys for me to keep.

In the beginning I would suggest that you return after about 5 -7 days so that I can check the device or adjust it as necessary, and to see you are not having problems with it. You must contact me immediately if there are any problems.

Depending on the level of trust and obiedence that you achieve with me I may remove the device and command you to improve your hygiene standards. I may then decide to amuse myself and torment you even further, replacing your chastity device for another (longer) period of time.

Occasionally I may have you checked by one of my friends.

This activity is subject to a signed agreement by all parties involved, including your spouse, and matters can be discussed in more detail during the preliminary session.

Being a key holder is a precious and honoured gift. I respect those who make such a committment and will assist them to achieve the chastity they deserve.

Mistress Strict