Often Amazed

I am often amazed by the total lack of simple good manners and courtesy shown to me in e-mails by prospective clients, eager submissives and desperate slave. These are people who wish me to pay them some attention and yet this is a sample of an actual email I recently received;

“I need a very hard spanking in frost of every one please E mail me @ ………. “
(I have removed the address to avoid embarrassing the sender)

That was the total extent of the communication. No greeting, No name given. What can anyone sending such an email hope to gain?

Here is another example;

“I want to serve you. I want to lick your boots and be owned by you. I am willing to relocate. I want to be a total slave.”

Again, there is no greeting, no name, no respect shown, no graciousness no consideration shown. Again I ask the question, what can anyone sending such an email hope to gain.

In both cases they gain NOTHING. The delete button is my friend and I do not hesitate to use it.

A word to the wise. I don’t mind if your emails are not highly eloquent, I don’t mind if English is not your first language and so your grammar is not all it could be, but I do mind when people writing to me do not put a greeting on there emails, EG Dear Mistress Strict
I do mind when they fail to sign a name in closing.
I do mind when they fail to spell check their letters.
I do mind when they fail to use the subject line.

A further suggestion:-
When writing to a Domme seeking to be accepted into her service, do not make your correspondence all about YOU. Rather, write explaining why you would be of great service to the lady. List your skills explaining how they would benefit her. Make sure your focus is on the Mistress and NOT on yourself.

Be polite,
Be respectful and
Be considerate.

Making Mistress Laugh

One of my sweet slaves, took it upon himself to make my day a little more pleasant by sharing some jokes with me. One in particular made me laugh out loud, so I thought I would share his good work with you all.

A married couple, in their early 60s, was celebrating their 32nd wedding anniversary at a quiet, romantic little restaurant.Suddenly, a tiny beautiful Fairy appeared on their table.She said: 'For being such an exemplary married couple and especially this time, I will grant you each a wish.''Oh, said the wife, I want to travel around the World with my darling husband' .The fairy waved her magic wand ; and - poof! - two tickets for the Queen Elizabeth II luxury liner and ten thousand dollars appeared in her hands.Then it was the husband's turn.He thought for a minute and said: 'Well, this is all very romantic, but an opportunity like this will never come again. So I'm going with my mind and not my heart'.I'm sorry my love, but my wish is to have a wife 30 years younger than me.The wife and the Fairy were shocked and disappointed. But a wish is a wish.So, the Fairy waved her magic wand, and - Poof! the husband became 92 years old.
The Moral of the story: Men who can be ungrateful bastards should remember: Fairies are Female.

He also sent his image, which I also liked ALOT!!!

Service to your Mistress can take many forms, there are of course the 'classics', the foot rub, the massage, the preparation of a special meal, but service can to many many different forms. Lightening the load with a laugh is a wonderful form of service.

Think about your Mistress, how can you lighten her load? What can you do, without being asked, without expecting a reward, what can you do to make her life more pleasant?

Why not go and do it?

Mistress Strict

Orgasm Denial

It is not uncommon for subs and their Dommes to report that the submissive loses the compelling desire to serve and obey after they have been granted the privilege to reaching orgasm. One obvious solution to this problem is the complete denial of the right to orgasm; however, studies show that for good prostate health, a male should ejaculate at least once every two weeks. No Domme wants her boy to risk his health, so the solution is prostate milking or massage.

Massaging the prostate forces seminal fluid and sperm past the valves in the ejaculatory ducts, and empty the prostate (which discharges directly into the urethra). If there is no stimulation given to the penis for a brief time before the prostate massage begins, draining of the ejaculate into the urethra will not trigger orgasm. Once ejaculate appears, it will help to empty the urethra by running a finger firmly up the underside of the penis from the root to the head, pushing the ejaculate in front of it.

Once a sufficient amount of ejaculatory fluid has been drained, insufficient fluid pressure to trigger the ejaculatory reflex will remain, and no amount of penile stimulation will result in orgasm until the fluid glands are recharged. This may take several hours to several days.

How long to go between milkings will have to be gauged by experiment. A particularly effective way of increasing an orgasm deprived male's sense of sexual frustration and thus his desire to serve and please Mistress between prostate milkings is to you’re your boy masturbate himself once a day every day to just short of orgasm, then install him into a chastity device.

Enjoy these wicked thoughts.
Mistress Strict

Strict Weight loss

Congratulations to my sissy girl Michelle

After months of work. After months of dedication and sweat Michelle has at last reached her goal weight and she looks FABULOUS. I am so proud of my Michelle for all the work she has done.

Changing her body shape was a goal she had asked me to assist her with as part of her distance sissy training. When she started with me she was only just able to squeeze into a size 20 skirt. Now she is looking so lady like and lovely in a new size 16 shape. She now has an excuse to buy a whole new wardrobe of clothes. What sissy wouldn't love that. I'd love to be able to post a pic of her with her new look, but unfortunately (as many of you will understand, she is a little 'shy')

Master Jay a wonderfully skilled Dom and personal trainer is a dear friend of mine and he designed a diet and exercise program for Michelle. Every week she would weigh and measure herself for us. Even though she is in North America and I am here in Australia, she was constantly monitored and her progress reviewed. The Internet offers so many amazing tools.

Thank you Master Jay for your dedication and skill. Michelle has reached her goal and I couldn't be more proud.

Well done my girl. Keep up the GREAT work.

Domination is everywhere

Isn't it wonderful that Domination can be found just about anywhere these days. Just yesterday I was reading a ‘children’s book’ that had one of the best role model characters for young women I have come across in a long time. Let me share,

“She was vivid and passionate, with large black eyes, it was said that he had
been her lover. She wore heavy gold earrings and a crown on her black
curly hair ringed with the fangs of snow tigers. Serafin had learned that
she had killed the tigers herself in order to punish the Tartar tribe who
worshiped them, because the tribesmen had failed to do her honour when she had
visited their territory. Without their tiger gods, the tribe declined into
fear and melancholy and begged her to allow them to worship her instead, only to
be rejected with contempt. What good would their worship do her? It
had done nothing for the tigers. Such was she; beautiful, proud and
pitiless.”

Now there is a woman any little girl would aspire to be.

At long last, I'm BACK to Blogging

Well, at last I am settled back at home and I can turn my attention once again to my much neglected blog. Sigh, Mistress has been out and about and away for so long, but fear not, I am back now with so much news to share.

Technology really has done amazing things for the art of Domination.

As you may or may not be aware, I have been on vacation. I have had a delightful time, but I have not been neglecting my wards. My subbie charges have been disciplines and praised trained and torments by me with the aid of technology.

There are so many wonderfully devious devices these days that can be used to keep a boy chaste. So many ways of checking up n a sissy to ensure she is doing as she has been told. The ability to dial into another’s computer, to take control of it and check their surfing history, all while being, on a beach on the other side of the world.

Technology certainly has given the Domme new freedom of expression. New ways of controlling her charges. New ways of monitoring behaviour. I adore taking control of the world of boys living as far afield in Wellington, New Zealand and Ontario in Canada. I love learning the differences in the kinky thoughts of boys and girls from across the planet. It is wonderful.

My stable of charges expands and contract all the time, I am happy to invite new sissies into service and very happy when I can pass on a fully trained one to a deserving Mistress. It really is so very rewarding.

I am a lucky and deserving Domme.

Let me know about your kink, Mistress always enjoys the devotion of a new boy or girl. I welcome applications from those with little or no experience and those who are highly skilled.

The saddest thing in all the world is a subbie alone. Train with me and become worthy to serve.

Catching up on News

Well, little ones,

There has been so much that has happened since I have been "off the air" for the past few weeks with ISP trouble. So let me catch you up.

Firstly, and most excitingly (ooops, is that a word?) one of my girls, one of my distance training sissy girls (jennie from Hull in the UK) has been accepted by my dear friend Mistress Ava as her personal maid.

I am so excited for them both. jennie has been training with me for some time. She has been diligent and dedicated. Once she reached a level that I found acceptable, I was confident to make an introduction for her to my long standing friend Mistress Ava. When I use to live in England, Mistress Ava and I would terrorize the south East, LOL . Now she has 'settled down' in York and mentioned that she was in need of a personal maid. I made a tentative introduction, they met, and I am happy to report that things have worked out for them both better than I could have hoped. They are even talking about a live in position!!! I am so proud of jennie and happy for Mistress Ava. She deserves only the best and I am proud so say that with her dedication and efficient manner, jennie is becoming one of the best.

I am so very happy and proud. Over time I would love to find happy homes for all my girls in training. I have thought many times of starting a 'Match Makers service' for sissy girls. maybe one day, I'll find the time. happy sigh. A Dommes job is never done.

your,
Mistress Strict

Greetings little ones.

Well, it has been an interesting holiday break for me. I hope you festive season has been a positive one, with lots of wicked toys being placed under your tree. Perhaps you have been bad and got a well deserved thrashing with holly leaves. (Oh my how prickly they are.)

Mistress has been off line for some time. My ISP has had a break down. It is STILL not working properly. I have had to resort to DIAL UP, oh can you belief it. How primitive!!!. One does not realize how many times each day one turns to the internet for assistance until you have been cut off from it.

I ask that you all be patient. I have a mountain of emails to go through. All who deserve one WILL get a reply, it just might take some time.

Donation to the ‘Get Mistress Strict a new computer and ISP’ will be graciously accepted. Email me direct for details on how to make your donations. :-)

Be well little ones,
Mistress will have more exciting news and views posted for you very soon.

For now, why not visir my site, www.strict.com.au and check out what's new there.